What would I say if I could talk to you today?
I’d say, “I love you.”
I’d say, “No, I don’t need anything. I’m fine.”
I’d say, “I’m sorry I didn’t come see you the day before you died. I was just a few minutes away, but I was being selfish.”
I’d say, “I know that you know I love you, but I should have taken every opportunity to tell you in person.”
I’d say, “Sorry, but no, I’m not going to be a lawyer or a judge.”
I’d say, “Yes, I’m sure I don’t need anything. I promise, I’m just fine.”
I’d ask, “How is it?”
I’d say, “Don’t worry about my Mom – that’s my job now.”
I’d say, “Thanks for listening to my choir performances with me. I know it meant a lot to you, but you’ll never know how much it meant to me.”
I’d say, “Thanks for introducing me to God.”
I’d say, “Thanks for helping calm my fears of death. I’m still not cured, but much closer after our last conversation.”
I’d ask, “What do you think we should name our first kid? Brittany says ‘Delane,’ but I’m pushing for ‘Lily.’ And yes, I’m certain it will be a girl, but no, I don’t know when we’ll have her. Can you tell me?”
I’d say, “Thank you for showing so much interest in my life. It’s easy to take risks when you have so much unconditional support.”
I’d say, “It was bittersweet to see you go. I miss you, but I know you’re happy.”
I’d say, “Redhead, go be with your Chief, and tell him his buddy says ‘hi.’”
